With Christmas now behind us, many are starting to think about booking those exciting summer holidays to beat the ‘January Blues’.

For separated parents, however, the division of the school holidays, especially in the summer, can be particularly acrimonious. There are many factors to consider on both sides. This is particularly so if you are trying to juggle a number of different child arrangements due to forming a ‘blended family’.

It’s always worth thinking ahead about school holidays

We always recommend that separated parents should start thinking early on about how the school holiday can be split. You should agree any foreign travel well in advance of booking those memory making times.

It is always best to deal with these matters as early as possible. That way, there is time to negotiate on all of the different issues that can arise.

Being able to plan when each of you have the children during the school holiday period assists both parties to book special holidays with the children in advance. It also gives everyone the opportunity to consider all of the other issues that arise during school holidays.

Things such as shared calendars and parenting Apps can really help to make plans clear. They also aid communications between you.

Taking children outside of the UK

It is important to understand that without written consent of all of those who have Parental Responsibility, allowing foreign travel, you cannot take your children outside of the UK. The only exception is unless you have certain types of Children Orders.

Getting that all important consent early on can ensure there are no last minute panics.

We understand that these issues are incredibly emotional. Even with the best will in the world, agreements sometimes cannot be reached between you without third party assistance.

In those circumstances, it is a good idea to seek legal advice early. This ensures these issues are dealt with in time for any holidays.

It may be that an agreement can be reached through solicitors, a mediator, or as a last resort, through a Court Order.

Leaving it until the last minute sadly may mean that you have to change your plans. This can be very costly and stressful.

We are specialists in family matters involving children

At FSM we are specialists in family matters involving children. Both Naomi Corp and Katie Howlett have a wealth of experience in dealing with complex children matters.

Our whole family team’s approach is to help you find the best way forward with your children at the heart.

For more information or if we can help in any way please get in touch with us today – familyenquiries@fsmsolicitors.co.uk or call 01225 755621